Passion test can love last beyond initial passion--Love's Secret has the answer

Passion pulls couples together and then pain can push love relationships apart. Passion and Pain seem to be the universal love dance. Many in hollywood are drawn together by passion and then soon pushed apart by the pain of past hurts and trauma.

Pregnant Christina Aguilera and her husband Jordan Bratman, announces her baby registry. After losing custody, of her children Britney Spears reunites with her mother. James Van Der Beek, slow dances with wife Heather McComb to "The Joker" at West Hollywood hot spot Winston's. Also there Julia Roberts and husband Danny Moder, dressed down in jeans, dancing and holding each other close. Brad Pitt and Angelina are ready for their fifth child and direct their passion toward creating affordable housing, eco issues, and other world issues.

The love relationship is not always easy to survive and keep the embers of passion alive and blazing. Love's Secret tip for today is to find an anchor tool to bring you back to love. As a couple if you are commited to the relationship then agree to find a word to keep you focused on love. When life brings up old habits and issues that push your buttons agree to bring your focus back to love. When you consistently bring your focus back to what is most important in your life you can establish new love habits. As you reclaim your power, you can choose to leave pain and drama in the past.

Lack of Sleep May Be Deadly

People who do not get enough sleep are more than twice as likely to die of heart disease, according to a large British study released on Monday. Many couples who don't know how to express their emotions spend sleepless nights tossing and turning.

Love's Secret offers tools through "heart expression" sessions to stay current with your emotions and stay connected to love. Here is a tip to express yourself and resist the urge to shut down.

Set aside time each week for a heart expression session. Turn off the phones, tv, and light a candle. When you light the candle set the intention to stay connected to love and to your heart. Take a couple of minutes in silence before you begin to speak. During this silence each partner takes time to visualize the things they love about the other partner. This establishes a heart connection. Next each partner takes turns expressing themselves, always using terms like "I feel and I want" ie: "I feel that I am not being heard and I want us to stay connected and continue to feel the love we did when we first met."

By establishing guidelines for communication from your heart you will stay connected. You will build a solid foundation for love and resist old habit of shutting down which destorys love. Old habits are sometimes hard to break and require a commitment. In order to live your live in love with the one you love you must make love your priority and focus on love.

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Do you have Love linked to pain?

As a child how did you get attention or feel loved? For many the only time they felt love from their parent was when they had an injury either physical or emotional. As a child this learned habit was reinforced over and over and created a pattern still gets repeated unconsciously. This habit of creating emotional pain and and drama to create a feeling of being loved becomes an automatic response to life. Many have become comfortable with their self created hell. The Secret, and The Law of Attraction teach that whatever is focused on is what is attracted. For those stuck in pain and drama, they must recognize the root of their self creation, in order to change their life.

Love's Secret offers answers to cut the neuro connections linking love to pain and drama. In order to be happy, a choice must be made, along with a commitment to change the old habit and addiction to negative emotions.

Love's Secret tip today is to release the past and take your power back from an addiction to pain and drama. Begin an emotions journal. Make a commitment to your own healing and journal each day for ten minutes in the morning and evening just before bed. Notice what you are feeling and use EFT to tap on whatever the emotion is just before going to sleep. As you fall asleep hold a vision of yourself happy and living your life in love with your mate. Feel how good it feels to be happy. As you continue to practice this exercise you will notice your life getting happier and happier.

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World Peace Starts at Home

World Peace starts at home within our own relationship. We all want more love and Love's Secret offers an action plan to live your life in love. Purchase Love's Secret and receive our 21-day love reminders as our gift. Love's Secret action plan includes creating a vision of what you want in your relationship to keep you focused on love. Learn to create a foundation for love by creating love habits each day and communicating from your heart. October 15 is blogger action day to make a difference.

Today's action is to spend 15 minutes thinking of all the things you have in your life with gratitude and write it down. Write down 10 things that you enjoy about the person you love and then hold a picture of them in your mind and send them a energy hug.

You can make a difference in your own life and relationship by purchasing Love's Secret and start applying our action plan to live your life in Love. We can create world peace by being the change we want to create. For the next 22 days I will be blogging and sharing ideas to make a difference for our world and planet. Please join me by sharing your ideas. Lets unite and create a world in love.

Internet Dating causing loss of intimacy

Many people wanting to avoid the pick up scenes are resorting to online internet sites to search for partnership. Some complain of falling in love with the profile of their intended and being disappointed with the live person. How do you avoid falling in love with a person who you have created in your head. Here are some tips for finding the person of your dreams and keeping yourself grounded in reality.

1. Create a vision of what you want to create in a relationship. Write down all the things you would love to find in your perfect partner.

2. Once you have found someone you think shows potential set up a public place to meet. Make sure that you set up this meeting shortly after you have made your contact to avoid falling in love in your head with someone who may not exist in person.

3. Once you have met your potential partner, then trust your gut. If you feel that they have not presented themselves as their true self move on. For many people it is much easier to have an intimate relationship via the internet than in person. A partnership requires the ability to communicate in person, negotiate differences, and create compromises to make love and intimacy last long term.

4. Once you have met look back over your list and vision, be realistic, and don't settle for something that doesn't fit. Many times you want intimacy so bad that you settle for something that you know is not a good long term relationship.